1. Build and maintain attraction - because everything you do and say makes the attraction go up or down.
2. Masculine/feminine Energy - balance this within the relationship dynamic, a masculine man steps up to makes decisions and will once a month ask his woman out for a date which includes that he will want to pay the bill, open the car door for her, open the restaurant door for her, pull out her chair and be chivalrous.
3. Courtship - letting go of instant gratification and being patient by taking the time to learn about each other; letting the man control the relationship while the women responds and receives graciously; only spending time with a partner that is consistent, that follows through with what they says they will do, that treats you with respect and wants the same kind of relationship that you do; that you allow things to happen naturally; you make decisions with long term results in mind; and share your true thought and feelings which will make both people feel comfortable opening up which will lead to a stronger connection.
4. Intimacy - it is the man’s job to initiate deep intimacy, but it is the woman’s job to show him its ok using physical reassurance touching or kissing his face.
5. Communication – this should be transparent, open and should flow. You do not have to like the same things, hobbies, taste in music or movies. If the conversation flows that is ok, do not overthink it. There should be no secrets between you, and you should have nothing to hide including what is on your phone or your PC, provide full transparency to ensure there is trust.
6. High value dates – the man picks her up from her home (if she lives nearby), he opens the car door for her, takes her to do some sort of activity (mini putt, bowling, the theatre, a museum, roller skating, strawberry picking etc), takes her to a restaurant for a meal (not a low value date coffee or drinks etc) and he pays, then he drops her off at home (if she lives along way – he calls to check that she got home ok).
A great partner will have been put into your life by God/the Universe life to trigger you into learning about your deepest self, so you will not always agree because your purpose is to help each other transform - it will be peaceful and full of love sometimes but will also bring about occasional conflict and expansion so try to embrace the duality.
To prevent self-sabotaging behaviours and overthinking, jealousy, insecurity, and being full of fears - aim and focus on what you want to achieve, you will then feel Enthusiasm, Gratitude, Happiness, Excitement, Love.
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