When people experience a very deep intense connection with someone that type of relationship can often scare a person when they have unhealed parts of themselves.
How to identify if this is your situation:
You will question who you are,
You will feel like you have no control,
You will overthink,
You will be scared,
You will want to run,
You will want to ghost the other person,
What are the common responses:
Self sabotage,
Insecurities magnified,
Lack of trust,
Stalking social media profiles,
Stalking the other persons phone,
What are the common reg flags:
Being inconsistent,
Actions not matching their words,
Not being on time,
Not responding to text, calls etc promptly,
Not making the other person a priority,
Remember that every relationship has reg flags, the problem is that most people don’t address them which is not a smart way to progress.
How to be successful with this type of relationship:
Consistently work on it
Kindly and respectfully talk about issues,
Be a mature adult and work as team to come to a solution,
When an issue happens it is best to shine a spotlight on it by saying something like: I could have heard you say .. and let the other person clarify what they meant.
Communication and open discussion is the key to help them becoming your life partner.
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