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Intense connection advice




When people experience a very deep intense connection with someone that type of relationship can often scare a person when they have unhealed parts of themselves.


How to identify if this is your situation:

  • You will question who you are,

  • You will feel like you have no control,

  • You will overthink,

  • You will be scared,

  • You will want to run,

  • You will want to ghost the other person,

  • What are the common responses:

  • Self sabotage,

  • Insecurities magnified,

  • Lack of trust,

  • Stalking social media profiles,

  • Stalking the other persons phone,

  • What are the common reg flags:

  • Being inconsistent,

  • Actions not matching their words,

  • Not being on time,

  • Not responding to text, calls etc promptly,

  • Not making the other person a priority,


Remember that every relationship has reg flags, the problem is that most people don’t address them which is not a smart way to progress.


How to be successful with this type of relationship:

  • Consistently work on it

  • Kindly and respectfully talk about issues,

  • Be a mature adult and work as team to come to a solution,


When an issue happens it is best to shine a spotlight on it by saying something like: I could have heard you say .. and let the other person clarify what they meant.


Communication and open discussion is the key to help them becoming your life partner.

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