1) When you need to have a serious talk:
• Wait until they are in a good mood then gently open one subject of genuine importance.
• Make sure that you listen to what the other person says when they open up to you with their thoughts on the topic. When you are truly paying attention, you can absorb the deeper meaning of the other persons words and move toward a resolution.
• The other person is more likely to be receptive, if you are engaged in a comfortable, non-combative conversation.
2) We invite all sorts of energies into our relationship i.e., ego, colleagues, family, etc:
• Keep the relationship exclusive and guard your privacy, promising to speak to each other instead of about each other.
• Focus on “we” instead of “me” during conversations and let your proud guard down. You are a team (even in business relationships) and it is more advantageous for both of you to seek good faith instead of finding fault.
• Work together to find solutions to these questions
If you work on finding a solution as a team, the relationship business or intimate has a greater chance of being successful in the long term.
3) How to prevent arguments occurring when your dissatisfied and at your limit:
• Meditate and mitigate your emotions first by accessing your higher self, where all solutions are available to you.
• This will help you approached the situation with greater calm and logic, planning the points you will make beforehand so you can more likely reach common ground.
We should want the best intentions for all concerned, so try to do things in your life out of love for everyone involved.
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